QueenElizabeth100
Nov 23 2002, 09:22 PM
People see me as stange and weird
Just because I am different
I am one of those kids who are
mental and a vampire
People make fun of till the make me cry
*one tear falls*
I wish they would stop making fun of me
WILL YOU HELP ME PLEASE?
*meny tears falling*
Queenelizabeth100 :(
Olivia Cainin
Nov 23 2002, 09:38 PM
Oh sweetie.... I an so sorry. People can be so very very cruel at times. There is not a person here that has not felt........ at one time or another... exactly the way you are feeling. I know that these words do not lessen your pain..... but at least know that you are not alone.
~leans close~ Want to know a secret.. those people... the ones that are now making your life miserable.........
they are nothing. And one day... not to many years from
now..... I promise you they will have a good look at themselves. They will find thenselves living pittyfull little lives..... with no passion, no imagination and no future.
And in that same moment my dear....... you will be living a
life of purpose, joy and meaning. Small minded and cruel people are soon graced with the life they so richly deserve. For what you put out into the world..... you
receive back..... many times over.
There is always a haven for you here. Come to talk to
learn to laugh...... to be who you are. The universe will
provide you with who and what you seek. You need
only have your eyes open... so that you may see it..... when it arrives.
MorphlingROR
Nov 23 2002, 10:05 PM
Oh yeah, the worsest part about society... unacceptance of those who are different. Be different from what is common and normal and be "eaten" and ridiculed because of it. Unfortunately the world is filled with many close-minded people and those who stand out from the crowd suffer, though they do not deserve it.
I'm afraid I can't help you here, but maybe my words will make it a little bit easier for you. I've gone through something similar, though the reasons were different. I lived through it and I believe I only got stronger from the experience. You will be made fun of because of what you are - ignore it. It will be difficult, but try to. They simply do not understand. Do not reveal what you are to just everybody, but only to most trusted. Seek for those people who will understand you, for those in a similar situation, and if you succeed, then those friends will help you. Prepare to be disappointed more then once though, as true friends are hard to come by. Don't get angry on the ones who make fun of you though and don't seek revenge. They are not to blame as they grew up in this society and it's not easy to pull out of it's clutches.
And one more thing, my personal opinion... Is it really bad to be strange or weird? I think not. It is far better then to be like the rest, is it not?
Rhapsody
Nov 23 2002, 10:08 PM
Otherwise, you can just bite them. ^_^
Water
Nov 23 2002, 10:16 PM
there are people who... are so miserable... they take pleasure in seeing another person hurt... in seeing another person fail... those people are the leaches of society and they thrive, like maggots, on dying flesh... you can decide to not allow it. Or, you can allow it and let then drain you.
Make the decision. PM me when you do. I will help.
Irishvamp
Nov 24 2002, 02:38 AM
*nods and blows nose* I understand....really my dear I do....
-Irishvamp-
Lady Camilae
Nov 24 2002, 05:39 PM
Dearest Elizabeth I would not worry about what others think as long as you are happy with yourself. some people are just jealious of how some people are and they hate that and to make there self feel better they pick on others that they wish they can be. so smile at them makes them more mad
QueenElizabeth100
Nov 24 2002, 07:34 PM
QUOTE (Olivia Cainin @ Nov 24 2002, 02:38 AM)
Oh sweetie.... I an so sorry. People can be so very very cruel at times. There is not a person here that has not felt........ at one time or another... exactly the way you are feeling. I know that these words do not lessen your pain..... but at least know that you are not alone.
~leans close~ Want to know a secret.. those people... the ones that are now making your life miserable.........
they are nothing. And one day... not to many years from
now..... I promise you they will have a good look at themselves. They will find thenselves living pittyfull little lives..... with no passion, no imagination and no future.
And in that same moment my dear....... you will be living a
life of purpose, joy and meaning. Small minded and cruel people are soon graced with the life they so richly deserve. For what you put out into the world..... you
receive back..... many times over.
There is always a haven for you here. Come to talk to
learn to laugh...... to be who you are. The universe will
provide you with who and what you seek. You need
only have your eyes open... so that you may see it..... when it arrives.
Me lady Thank you.
queenelizabeth100
QueenElizabeth100
Nov 24 2002, 07:36 PM
QUOTE (waterbearer @ Nov 24 2002, 03:16 AM)
there are people who... are so miserable... they take pleasure in seeing another person hurt... in seeing another person fail... those people are the leaches of society and they thrive, like maggots, on dying flesh... you can decide to not allow it. Or, you can allow it and let then drain you.
Make the decision. PM me when you do. I will help.
Thank you very much I think I will just try to inorg them.
queenelizabeth100
Orion
Nov 24 2002, 09:28 PM
The good thing about these threads, are that the most of who reply, are willing to accept anyone as they are...That means you too
If you haven't noticed, you have some friends here
BlackSita1
Nov 24 2002, 10:10 PM
Try not to let the close minded people of the world get you down. You have many friends here. I know that it is hard at times not to let it bug you. But remeber you have friends to pick you when you need it. ~give Queen a big bear hug~
Dweomer
Nov 25 2002, 01:38 AM
AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH its green...kill it....kill it.....*stomps on the super huge green letters*
ummm sorry...it scared me....
what where we talking about again...oh yeah...kids....sorry but that kinda thing happens...just remember....everyone gets whats coming to them....they might be mean and cruel to you now..but one day they will be the ones realizing how pointless their lives are when they get jobs and get to say the same phrase to everyone
"would you like fries with that....ok drive through please"
karma is a bitch...
snow is cold....
my shoes are black....
my finger nails have purple polish on them....
Grizzly
Nov 25 2002, 07:00 AM
This is what I think about when someone gives me grief hope it helps: Shit splatters, piss runs & the world still turns on its axis. (In other words who cares what they think it doesn't change anything about who you are.) Sorry for the language I now how you early english folk hate that but it's how I think & talk.
Liod
Nov 25 2002, 07:06 AM
Good point, Grizzly. I mean, why should you care what they think? Does it make any difference to who you are? Would it make you a more complete person if even the narrow-minded ones accepted you? In my opinion, it's much easier to be confident in who you are and not give a rat's arse what anyone else thinks. Saves you a lot of heartache. It's too much strain trying to please everyone.
Upir Lichy
Nov 25 2002, 11:16 AM
Love,
it is often down to jealousey- the fact you are happy to be who you are, that you are more mature, you aren't boring.
They have probably realised that they, like many others, will just become a blur in life....just a crowd from which you stand so far away from.
The thing is, perhaps they feel neglected. They see you as an individual, someone who knows who they are, what they want in life. You are intelligent and will be successful.
They see this and are afraid and jealous. People find the best way to deal with this is to attack you, because although you don't mean to, you are a threat to them. You make them realise that they are nothing special, they are just boring. So they attack you, try to make you unhappy.
Perhaps you should approach them, bring them into your life....they may think you are being snobby and looking down on them (I know you are not, but this -i guarantee you- is how the see it). Try and make friends with them.
If this fails, which it probably will, you will have to just accept it. Why care what people think? If they don't like you then generally that is their problem.
I know my advice isn't great- but I try to show you all angles. The bottom line is that you are you and there is nothing anyone can -or indeed should- do about it.
Be happy with who you are, and I guarantee one day it will fall into place. There is nothing wrong with being alone....for you never really are alone....
The internet has opened up alot of oppurtunities now to meet like-minded people without the fear of rejection.
Hope this sets your mind at ease a little
Take care babes
citrus
Nov 25 2002, 03:02 PM
Hey whats wrong with being closed minded. Sometimes people are just dumbasses. And you need to make fun of them!!
Ta
Cit
NOIRology
Nov 25 2002, 07:46 PM
ah, the cruelty of society. there is not a single human who had not experienced it at least once. there is not a single who had not experienced it so badly that it feels like lonliness will be forever. do not worry, my lady, for you will always have many friends here. though you may want the physical friend, the one you can see, i certainly hope you will consider us true friends someday.
i am not a vampire, but i am quite different from my classmates...i am just very smart. it sets me apart from everyone. some see me as smart, though others see me as strange. if you can, if it is possible, enjoy your uniqueness. i know it must sound weird, but i try to enjoy being how i am, smart, gothic, whatever they call me. try to enjoy how you are. i am sure when i get to know you better i will enjoy your uniqueness. it is what keeps humanity alive, all of our uniquenesses.
Grizzly
Nov 26 2002, 06:28 AM
QUOTE (Clearwitch @ Nov 25 2002, 10:06 PM)
Good point, Grizzly. I mean, why should you care what they think? Does it make any difference to who you are? Would it make you a more complete person if even the narrow-minded ones accepted you? In my opinion, it's much easier to be confident in who you are and not give a rat's arse what anyone else thinks. Saves you a lot of heartache. It's too much strain trying to please everyone.
10-4 that sister gotta love being you own person can't please them all, all the time.
QueenElizabeth100
Nov 26 2002, 12:37 PM
QUOTE (Orion @ Nov 25 2002, 02:28 AM)
The good thing about these threads, are that the most of who reply, are willing to accept anyone as they are...That means you too
If you haven't noticed, you have some friends here
Thanks me lady! ^_^
§arah
Nov 26 2002, 08:06 PM
Elizabeth, you have to remember your not the only one this has happend to..there are others.
All you can really do it stand up to it or ignore it.
You sound very young and school yards cruelty always picks on the difference to the "norm"..
I went through alot also yet i take satisfaction in the fact that i am not like them..
nor ever will be.
Your only just learning..and the tears of hurt you shed will go away with time..but you will never forget..and thats ok..
You will cope..if they know they getting to you they wont stop..untill you snap and hurt them..
even then they may not stop..
Maybe they see your potential and feel threatend by it.. jealous..
They dont hate you...they just want to be like you but know they never can be..maybe they dont even realise that...to busy trying to be better...
its mainly jealousy or their own selfish insecurities..
by hurting you makes them feel strong..
and you weak...
but in 10 years time...they will regret they ever hurting and if they dont..
then they'll never change..
Your one of the lucky ones...
Your not like them :)
Sarah
Irishvamp
Nov 26 2002, 08:17 PM
Dearest Queen,
My dear do let the unhappiness slip out of your mindset...for I have. And perhaps if we are both in another disposistion we shall chear eachother up....yes? *hugs the Queen*
-Irishvamp-
guitargodhelix3
Oct 30 2006, 08:59 PM
this entire forum is based on acceptence, dont mind reality, life is only what you precieve of it. noone is here to openly judge. this is a sight for the alternative lifestyle. and the simple word alternative means that were not like everyone els. and people always get uncomfortable with things there not used to. and to feel better about themselves they will prove to themselves that nomatter what lifestyle you lead they can break you down. but we all know beter theese are the ignorant ones. they lack understanding or the drive to try to understand what it is we believe. and tht is there own misfortune.
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