QUOTE (Vicereine @ Oct 11 2004, 06:28 PM)
just a quick question for you guys.....
I use the term witch to describe myself as it best describes what i perceive my gifts to be....... and yet through reading on the forum, i see that others might describe me as a Psi vamp, and empath or a sensitive....even though i can the same person ...
what term would you use to describe yourself and why? do you use it for shock factor or because its easier that explaining everything all the time?
Does it enhance understanding, if that is what you want, or does it cause people to back away, again is that the reason you use that classification in the first place?
look forward to the replies
Vicereine
I like to just say that I am human and am very reluctant to take on such things. I have also taken on the label "psychic" because, well, it has pretty much been given to me by someone you could say and it fits very well and it is one of the things which I cannot really doubt in anyway anymore.
In general with labels, it does take unusual intervention before I even consider adapting them fully, and then it is rather reluctantly. It is just the way I am. Part of it is that I do not want to identify as something that I am not sure of. Another part is that often I dislike the stigma associated with certain things... where people try to say what this is or what that is.
As for people in general, I prefer to be percieved as normal wherever possible and I really do kind of long for what you would call a more "normal life". A problem with being different than others (in virtually any significant way) in and of itself is that, well you are different, and your problems often aren't the same. So it is like a seperate reality that you live different than other people. And the grass is always greener on the other side. Some times more than others.
In real life unless you were very close to me [and even then] or able to figure things out, you would have real problems detecting anything unusual about me except for superficial things and certain interests that are easily passed off as other things. I am very good at this. A lot of practice. Every once in a while I slip though.