QUOTE (Archangel @ Sep 27 2004, 05:01 AM)
I'm an extremely sensitive empath, and as a result I'm forced to choose very carefully whom I get intimate with, because I've been taken advantage of many times by those whom I trusted.
How would that have anything to do with being an empath? Quite the contrary, empathism makes it easier to notice when someone is playing you for a fool, their energy gets fuzzy and chaotic. If you're aware, you'll notice quicker than a non-empath, because you have this option to "cheat", in my opinion.
Sanctuary: I actually found it easier to influate someone who was focused on something, I used to play around with mind-control at rock concerts. When they were focused on the stage, and the band, they were less likely to notice me sneaking in the backdoor and nudging them. Their guard was down ad their attentionwas elsewhere, it's like an open gate. Of course, too focused isn't good either, ever tried to work on someonewho's headbanging? ;)
My intention with this question "Just a question at the end here...is there any thought, any idea, you have never had?" was, if I remember my thought process right, going more in the direction of, if you have to nudge an already existing thought...and there is practically no thought that person has never had, even briefly, it's just a matter of finding the right "file".