gothicferret
Jun 16 2004, 04:38 PM
i have a fantasy tobe used as a vampire blood bank. i am in to goth but don't believe i am a naturalvampire but would LOVE to be cut and druk from to satisfy others. is this wrong or unusual?
NightVision
Jun 16 2004, 04:49 PM
Good question actually.
I think it's not that unusual at all. Much of the appeal of Vampires lies in ideals of dominance and submission. Lots of people have vampire fantasies. Brothels will even cater for them specifically. Why do you think Vampire movies are so popular? Why does the camera close in on bite scenes? Nah, you're not a freak, it's just that most people tend not to openly discuss such things.
You'll notice that I'm speaking about Vampires in relation to sex. I do believe that such things are rooted in sexual feelings, although that is my opinion.
Is it wrong?
I don't think it is my place to say whether it's right or wrong. Anyway; I don't think morality comes into it: you feel a certain way, and that's all. It's a feeling, not an action. We should not have to justify our feelings.
The most important thing though, is that you don't put yourself in a situation of danger. If you have strong urges one way or another, you need to be able to control them or they can get you into trouble. In this subculture there are many predatory individuals who would take advantage of a "willing victim", not to mention health risks, freaking out your parents and friends...
If it were me, I would channel these feelings you have into creativity, at least until you are older. Forgive me making assumptions, but you do sound a little young. Anyway. I hope this helped a bit.
Angelous
Jun 16 2004, 10:59 PM
I don't think that's wrong or unusual. I've met tons of people who feel the same way you do.
I think whatever fetish you have, is just a fetish... so why should that be wrong?
Barnabas
Jun 17 2004, 01:33 AM
:meow: I will just say that I totally agree and leave it at that.
Liod
Jun 17 2004, 05:02 AM
I can't help but wonder...where did the cow come into this? Isn't that a bit demeaning to the ones who prefers to classify themself as donors?
Robin
Jun 17 2004, 06:27 AM
could you use a cow as a donor? ^_^
NightVision
Jun 17 2004, 10:26 AM
Indeed...if this is a new kind of Jargon, it belongs in the Vampire Jargon thread - along with info on who uses it.
Actually, the first time I saw the thread I had a bit of a giggle because in the UK a Cow means the same as Bitch, so I was about to type "Hell no, it's ok! Attitude is good"...and then I realised the thread was about something else entirely.
Liod
Jun 17 2004, 12:07 PM
I thought it was more in the direction of rather stupid females...but I can see how this term came about, seeing as certain groups of vampires likes to refer to non-vampires as 'cattle'.
negruinimă
Jun 22 2004, 07:44 AM
No i dont think there is anything wrong with people offering themselves as donors, if its a mutually consenting thing between two people. However there are two warnings that id offer: make sure you have no transmittable blood or other diseases if people are goin to drink from you and also dont be fed off more than 4 times by the same person because the person will develop a bond with you, unless its a partner in which case, drink on!
Secret_kittie
Jul 6 2004, 02:55 PM
:meow: thats not unusual at all! and anyone who thinks so is very closed minded and i doubt they would ever admit their own personal fantasies, its a very normal thing, i feel the same way actually and there isnt a damn thing wrong or awkward about it
Robin
Jul 6 2004, 03:22 PM
oh ok..a donor that makes more sense now..lol..
no I do not see why anyone would see this any differently...
especially if it is a fetish of sorts for some people
Misused_Misunderstood
Jul 7 2004, 02:45 PM
i noticed this as i am at my sexual peak (no laughing),
and this thread does seem to be about sexual relations,
i indeed do see as there is something wrong with it, although it is not my place to judge,
i feel you should only do this if you love eachother and are both willing due to the relationship, not for just the thrillss
Robin
Jul 7 2004, 02:48 PM
I so agree with you on that point
Misused_Misunderstood
Jul 7 2004, 04:01 PM
QUOTE (Buddha @ Jul 7 2004, 02:48 PM)
I so agree with you on that point
you seem to agree with me on alot
Robin
Jul 7 2004, 04:04 PM
you speak alot of which I believe on..it makes total sense to me..
Misused_Misunderstood
Jul 7 2004, 04:07 PM
QUOTE (Buddha @ Jul 7 2004, 04:04 PM)
you speak alot of which I believe on..it makes total sense to me..
glad it does to someone,
many beings do not agree with my morals and opinions,
Robin
Jul 7 2004, 04:31 PM
indeed..I accept things as they are..simply if thats what you believe it is simply that..but many things you say are very intelligent..tis why I listen
Misused_Misunderstood
Jul 7 2004, 05:21 PM
QUOTE (Buddha @ Jul 7 2004, 04:31 PM)
indeed..I accept things as they are..simply if thats what you believe it is simply that..but many things you say are very intelligent..tis why I listen
i am glad i have been able to get through to people,
when i first arrived on the scene many years ago, i had a different personality, none of you liked,
now from my entire life i am able to pass on ideas and morals and educate anyone who is willing to listen,
if any of you, wish to meet me just ask and it can be arranged,
i have much to say, and much to teach,
but many are still unable to learn,
i just wonder,
"why am i dying to live, if i am living to die"
answer me that, and i will bow down to you
Epyon
Jul 7 2004, 06:03 PM
from what i've read in this post, i got to see both sides of the action. the one i knew of, involved the drinking. and now the ones who desire to feed them. i'm not a real vampire. personally i drink blood because i'm addicted to drinking blood at least once a month, and it tastes really good. so much goes into drinking and donating. drinking from cold plastic hospital blood bags gets old. the reason its more exciting to get blood from a live body is the feeling. if someone is willing to sacrifice their blood to you, that person must really trust you.
not really the whole truth but partial. it would take too long to explain the whole matter. this kind of realationship between the Drinker and provider is as complicated as a relationship between two lovers.
thats why if you drink for fun, pick a new donor every time. if you drink from the same person more than once, everything is gonna change. don't quote me on it, but you gotta be careful.
as far as feeding goes, giving blood is exciting and an experiance like no other. but keep the rest of us safe by checking your blood every time you donate.
Draquilas
Jul 7 2004, 06:46 PM
QUOTE
i have much to say, and much to teach,
but many are still unable to learn,
Most people don't think that others have things to teach that they won't understand on their own and in their own time. That's probably why they are "unable to learn". They probably just don't want to listen, no offense intended just to mention.
QUOTE
i just wonder,
"why am i dying to live, if i am living to die"
answer me that, and i will bow down to you
Because, most people are afraid of what comes after this. That's why we have religions, to see what will come after life, and how to live life to the extent so that we don't have problems while living. And you really aren't living to die, you're living to nurture something so that they can live. Except, being humans, we have this obsession with burning, or putting each other in boxes. So strange... we practically want to avoid letting anything get some food from our bodies.
Robin
Jul 8 2004, 07:44 AM
QUOTE
"why am i dying to live, if i am living to die"
because of the experience...we all live to experience and experience comes with every breath we take....it is the intense experiences that we mostly remember and look to experiencing again... ^_^
our existence in itself is merely an illusion to what really is
crazy
Jul 8 2004, 12:16 PM
[QUOTE]"why am I dying to live, if I'm just living to die?"
people are dying to live because they are scared of the pain that could come along with death and leaving the world with the uncertainty of what is coming next (if there is anything amazing then).
but death is inevitable so you live for a while and experience life and then you die - we have absolutely no control..lol
Misused_Misunderstood
Jul 8 2004, 12:34 PM
by good you are all foolish,
you dont see the question
"i" means i, as in the speaker, since i said "i" then i am referring to me,
why do we all wish to be human when it is to be so frail?
Robin
Jul 8 2004, 12:46 PM
all things in this world shall fade away..it is merely a matter of acceptance
Draquilas
Jul 8 2004, 03:44 PM
QUOTE
why do we all wish to be human when it is to be so frail?
Because, simply, we don't like to be stupid, even if we do die at a young age of 100.
but then again, that's a lot longer then other animals
Draquilas
Jul 8 2004, 03:46 PM
QUOTE
by good you are all foolish,
you dont see the question
"i" means i, as in the speaker, since i said "i" then i am referring to me,
Then why are you asking us to decipher your words if it's a question to yourself? If you want to bow down to any of now, you can by the way, we all answered your question, just maybe not the way you expected.
Draquilas
Jul 8 2004, 03:50 PM
oh, forgot to mention, we like to include the entire board when we're answering questions too. Usually the entire race won't take offense to something when someone in particular can.
crazy
Jul 11 2004, 08:41 PM
QUOTE
by good you are all foolish,
you dont see the question
"i" means i, as in the speaker, since i said "i" then i am referring to me,
ok dude now I am confused.
Kath
Jul 12 2004, 12:19 AM
QUOTE
i have much to say, and much to teach,
but many are still unable to learn,
erm, yeah... and people who really know shit and are wise and have a clue... typically they don't go around with a sign saying 'look at me, i'm so superior'. all that does is scream 'look at me, i'm insecure', ya know?
"we are all fools. if i am wise, it is in knowing well how much a fool i am" - Socrates
Kath
This is a "lo-fi" version of our main content. To view the full version with more information, formatting and images, please
click here.